How to Know a Person

All writing, especially non-fiction, is a reflection through the lenses of the writer—his beliefs, her unique perspectives on the world, the things he longs for. I see it clearly in David Brooks' works, and especially evident in his latest, How to Know a Person.

His own journey into the heart is shared openly, as are his challenges of going beyond the limits of that journey imposed by brain chemistry, personality and training. It's a very personal story, told in a very Brooksian style with erudition, impeccable sourcing, and great stories. At the end of the day, it strikes me that it's mostly about him and his worldview at this point in his life. And, that works for me.

Brooks is one of my favorite writers, and this is, I must say, my favorite book of his. I had the pleasure of attending a lecture of his recently, and his charm, humor, and personal disclosures that made this book so special were clearly evident. This is a must-read for anyone interested in deep, intimate relationships in family, friends, and work.